Wednesday, August 8, 2012
I love my life and I love living.. :)
Tuesday, February 2, 2010
A day to remember
Monday, February 1, 2010
Opposites Attract
Saturday, January 9, 2010
Yhenny is back!
Sunday, December 20, 2009
Losing the "romance"
Touchy story that will melt your heart.
Here it goes...
nature, and I love the warm feeling when I lean against his broad shoulders.
Three years of courtship and now, two years into marriage, I would have
to admit, that I am getting tired of it. The reasons of me loving him
before, Has now transformed into the cause of all my restlessness.
I am a sentimental woman and extremely sensitive when it comes to a
relationship and my feelings, I yearn for the romantic moments, like a little girl yearning for candy. My husband, is my complete opposite,
his lack of sensitivity, and the inability of bringing romantic moments
into our marriage has disheartened me about love. One day, I finally
decided to tell him my decision, that I wanted a divorce.
"Why?" he asked, shocked. "I am tired, there are no reasons for
everything in the world!" I answered. He kept silent the whole night,
seems to be in deep thought with a lighted cigarette at all times.
My feeling of disappointment only increased, here was a man who can't
even express his predicament, what else can I hope from him? And finally
he asked me:" What can I do to change your mind?" Somebody said it
right, it's hard to change a person's personality, and I guess, I have
started losing faith in him.
Looking deep into his eyes I slowly answered : "Here is the
question, if you can answer and convince my heart, I will change my mind,
Let's say, I want a flower located on the face of a mountain cliff, a
nd we both are sure that picking the flower will cause your death, will you do it for
me?"
He said :" I will give you your answer tomorrow...." My hopes just
sank by listening to his response.
I woke up the next morning to find him gone, and saw a piece of paper
with his scratchy handwriting, underneath a milk glass, on the dining table
near the front door, that goes....
My dear,
"I would not pick that flower for you, but please
allow me to explain the reasons further.."
This first line was already breaking my heart. I
continued reading.
"When you use the computer you always mess up the
Software programs, and you cry in front of the screen,
I have to saved my fingers so that I can help to restore the programs.
You always leave the house keys behind, thus I have
to save my legs to rush home to open the door for
you.
You love traveling but always lose your way in a
new city, I have to save my eyes to show you the way.
You always have the cramps whenever your "good
friend" approaches every month, I have to save my palms so
that I can calm the cramps in your tummy.
You like to stay indoors, and I worry that you will
be infected by infantile autism. I have to save my
mouth to tell you jokes and stories to cure your
boredom.
You always stare at the computer, and that will do
nothing good for your eyes, I have to save my eyes
so that when we grow old, I can help to clip your
nails, and help to remove those annoying white hairs. So
I can also hold your hand while strolling down the
beach, as you enjoy the sunshine and the beautiful
sand... and tell you the color of flowers, just
like the color of the glow on your young face...
Thus, my dear, unless I am sure that there is
someone who loves you more than I do... I could not pick
that flower yet, and die.. "
My tears fell on the letter, and blurred the ink of his
handwriting... and as I conntinue on reading...
"Now, that you have finished reading my answer, if you
are satisfied, please open the front door for I am
standing outside bringing your favorite bread and
fresh milk...
I rush to pull open the door, and saw his anxious face, clutching
tightly with his hands, the milk bottle and loaf of bread.... Now I am very
sure that no one will ever love me as much as he does, and I have decided
to leave the flower alone...
That's life, and love. When one is surrounded by love, the feeling of
excitement fades away, and one tends to ignore the true love that lies
in between the peace and dullness.
Love shows up in all forms, even very small and cheeky forms, it has
never been a model, it could be the most dull and boring form...
flowers, and romantic moments are only used and appear on the surface of the
relationship. Under all this, the pillar of true love stands... and that's
our life... Love, not words win arguments...
Thursday, December 4, 2008
Presents for CHRISTMAS..
As of this very moment, i can't help but to think of what the best gifts will be, which i could give to my loved ones. I have already bought papa a cp early this December and with great excitement, i already handed it out to him, but I cannot evade giving him a present for christmas. See how generous i am?!! :D Would that be alright if i'll give him rubber shoes?? hmmm... think think think.. How about bag for my step mom,.. sporty shirt for my brother? Blouse for my eldest sister,... pants for my other sister... jacket for the youngest... and toys, toys, more toys and educational stuffs for my beloved nephew...!!!?? How about for my partner!! ?? Do i have to stick with the usual thing that i give him.. the undying SHIRT... Name a brand, and he'll surely have it.... hehehe... CAn someone help me though to decide on this one??? And for my "inaanaks" and my best buds,.. you're next on the list... chillax... LOL!
Saturday, August 9, 2008
What's new?
Sunday, June 15, 2008
For you PAPA...
In my 22 years and 10 months of existence, I have in my life time, met and known many fine fathers. I have read about many great men… Yet, I can say at this very moment, I’m so glad and thankful that you are my father.
Through and through you've shown me the ropes
Helping me in anything and everything I face
Everyday you're there for me by simply calling your name
Rarely do I get to thank you enough. So on this special day, I do exactly that.
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Thursday, June 12, 2008
nothin ...
Whhhaaaaaa…….. I feel so stupid, fool, dumb, slow, brainless, dull, foolish, idiot, dim-witted, moron!!! How many times do I need to be corrected? Am I just being careless with the usage of words or really no logic at all??!!!? Wake up yhen… wake up wake up! Do I have to hit my head so hard on the wall just to be awakened?? Haiz… Fatalar akez… I love criticisms… I know it will do well for me. But I hate myself for being so dumb…. Sorry … sorry… sorry… this is the word I use to say. I am so sorry for myself! Hope that I can do good next time. I must do good! And I will do good!
the PUZZLED_ME
Have you ever been disappointed with how you live your life at this very moment? Or have you ever compromised your work or studies in order to pursue your personal goal and fail in the end? Well, these are just but some of the so-called complexities in life.
Saturday, May 31, 2008
Wednesday, May 28, 2008
TOP 11 Reasons of staying single ( a point of view)
Saan you here?
*11. Destiny Adik*
Eto yung mga naghihintay kay "Destiny" na gumawa ng paraan para
pagtagpuin sila ng kanilang mga "partner in layp".. ayannn...
kakapanood nyo ng "Serendipity" eh feeling nyo ang nangyari sa movie eh
mangyayari rin sa inyo... such a cliché.. hindi nyo ba alam na kung
walang effort destiny is useless.
*10. Perfectionist/ Mapili*
Yes, isang taong perpeksiyonista. Yung tipong "dapat ganito ang magiging
kapartner ko". Pag may nakilala, nakita lang na pangit ang kuko o may
dumi lang, turn-off na agad. O kaya ang daming ayaw. Ayaw sa mabait,
boring daw, gusto bad boy/ pilya pero kapag pinaiyak ka tatanungin ka
"bakit ang sama mo", "bakit mo nagawa yun!"... Adik ka ba?!... Ayaw sa
cute, ayaw din naman sa panget. Meron dyan gusto ka ayaw mo naman.. yung
gusto mo halos magtambling ka pero deadma pa rin yang stunts mO sa
kanya! Pasaway ka rin e! Ano ba talaga kuya/ate?
*9. Busy Busyhan*
Opo, eto yung ang mundo e gumagalaw lang sa libro at ballpen kung
estudyante ka o kaya naman sa computer at files kung office staff ka (WRITER bah! Lolz) . Yung tipong aalis ng bahay ng alas 5 o alas 6 ng umaga at uuwi ng bahay ng 7 hanggang alas 9 ng gabi (AKO YUN AH! Hahaha). Sabay tulog na. Kapag sabado masaya na sila sa tv, sa pagkain na niluluto ni mama at sa linggo naman sisimba at maghahanda nang kelangan para sa lunes hanggang byernes. Pssssst.. Pause for a while naman!
*8. Friendship Theory*
Ano naman itech?... Eto yung ang buhay ay kay bestfriend o kaya kay
special friend, na hindi masabi-sabi sa friendship nya sa loob ng
kanilang mahabang panahon na pagsasama, dahil baka daw maapektuhan ang
pakikipagkaibigan at iwasan sya. Yung tipong pag may kasama si
friendship na iba, nagseselos na wala naman sa lugar, pero syempre wag
pahalata, kunyari happy sya for friendship.
loob mo at baka mamaya forever mong pagsisihan yan, kaw rin!... Minsan
pa naman pareho pala kayong naghihintayan. . hmmp! haha
*7. Born-to-be-one (Autistic)*
Eto yung nasa palad na ang pagiging single daw. Walang reasons. Basta
lang nabuhay sya sa mundo na mag-isa at feeling nya mamamatay sya sa
mundong mag-isa. Kesyo magmamadre o magpapari na lang... Asa kang
tatanggapin ka pa noh! bwahahahaha
*6. Happy-go-lucky*
Eto yung taong walang alam kundi kasiyahan at trippings. Kahit sino na
lang basta no strings attached (ayos ba chong?). For fun lang daw... Walang halong seryosohan.
pader. Makakahanap ka rin ng katapat mo!!!
*5. Wrong Place*
Have you experienced this? Yung pakiramdam mo nasa ibang mundo ka. Yung nakakaharap mo e yung mga hindi mo gusto, yung mga hindi mo hinahanap. Alam mo yun? Halimbawa nasa ibang bansa ka, pero ang hinahanap mo e
yung amoy ng nasa sariling bayan mo. O kaya naman e nasa sarili mong
bayan ka, nasa normal na lipunan, pero ikaw ang abnormal at hindi mo
kayang sabihin na abnormal din ang hanap mo! Wahahaha
*4. Wrong Time*
Eto yung mga tao na sinasabi na "hindi pa ako ready e, bata pa kasi ako"
o kaya naman "hindi pa ako handa sa panahong ito", "wala pa ako kayang
ipagmalaki". Yes meron pong ganyan. Yung feeling nila may tamang
panahon para sa love (meron nga ba?). Awwwwwww!...
*3. Si Parents kasi...*
Yes, factor din ang community na ginagalawan mo. Una, ayaw pa ni mader
o pader na magkaron ka ng kahit 22 anyos ka na at kelangan umabot ka muna
raw ng 40 bago magkaroon ng gf/bf (lolz). O kaya naman ikaw mismo! Takot sa
sasabihin ni parents at ni kapitbahay na tsismosa sa magiging kasama mo.
lupa kayo." Awwwww!... Payo ko sayo, "Pakialam nila diba?... Palibhasa inggit! O d kaya naman eh napaglipasan na ng panahon!" hahaha
Eto kalimitan ang reason ng marami. "Ayaw kona!!! Takot na ako mangyari
pa ang nangyari dati!"... O diba, ang drama ng layp?... Yes, tama ka.
Eto yung dahil sa past relationship mo, e until now aayaw mo nang
magkaroon at sinumpa mo na ata ang magmahal. Dahil sa pinagpalit ka sa
mas pangit, o kaya naman iniwan ka ng walang word na bye-bye, o dahil
binugbog ka!, anopa ba?... Madami yan wag na nating isa-isahin at baka
tumulo si tears, heheh... Ganunpaman, eto lang mga hija at
hijo... Ibat-iba ang lasa ng pag-ibig. May mapait, may mapakla, may
matamis at may maasim (as if nalasahan ko na! haha).
*1. EX to the Nth power*
Oi, aminin!!! LOVE pa rin si Ex kahit 1 or 2 yrs na ang nakakalipas. May
ganito naman. Yung tipong ilang taon na ang nakakalipas, hindi pa rin
makalimutan si ex. Yung pinagsamahan, yung tawanan, yung iyakan, at
lahat ng nangyari sa inyo nung kayo pa. Malungkot man at sa kung anumang
kadahilanan, maganda man o masama ito, kelangan nyo ng magpaalam sa
isa't-isa... YES, after a year sasabihin natin, "I'm over him/her na.",
pero pag-usapan natin ang love at ang nangyari sa ating relastionship
from the past, TADANNNNNNNNNNNNN, eto na, sya agad ang naalala mo. At
habang nagkukwento ka, OUCH! may kirot, o kaya may ngiti at may
bumabagabag sa iyong kalooban. Ano kaya yun?!... AMININ mo na kasi,
MAHAL mo pa si EX...Isa lang ang masasabi ko, well, mahirap sya kalimutan alam
ko yan, (kahit d ko pa naexperience! haha) pero open your heart and try to entertain someone. Wag mo ikumpara si ex sa iba. At give urself a KITKAT, have a break.
Saturday, May 24, 2008
Bothered...
I’ve been thinking about this lately. There is indeed a fine line between being honest and a**hole. Most of us live in the middle of somewhere, trying to find that unhealthy balance between what is true from bulls**t. Sometimes, concealing your convictions is a survival technique, which, ironically, slowly weakens and kills you inside. What would be more satisfying, a day of lame pranks or a day full of unfiltered truth? The truth hurts sometimes, but the potential for positive gains is enormous. It is always better to be honest. I would much rather have someone just tell me to my face that they hate me than to have them tell me that they like me and then go tell everyone else that they hate me, whether I found out about it or not. Seriously, even if it's hard to be honest, your friends will probably appreciate it. If they get mad at you, they will probably come around and stop being mad because at least you were honest with them. There is never an excuse for being dishonest with anyone for any reason. A REAL friend will tell them the truth no matter what. It doesn’t matter if its good or bad, you just have to be honest. Telling the truth to a friend even if it hurts should not be misinterpreted. What a friend would want is always for another's welfare. Don't be blinded or overwhelmed with a lover's blatant lies and trust on his version of truth. Normally, it is difficult to spot lies from what is true on that this situation...
Well, just take that anvils off your chest and live a wonderful life! … its not too late you know..!
Thursday, May 22, 2008
quote...
May we never let the things we can’t have, or don’t have, or shouldn’t have, spoil our enjoyment of the things we do have and can have. As we value our happiness, let us not forget it, for one of the greatest lessons in life is learning to be happy without the things we cannot or should not have.- Richard Evans
Friday, May 16, 2008
for YOU!

Every one of us has something we want to hide from our society, something to hide from the people we meet everyday. Sometimes we even pretend to be someone we are not just to hide things we find to be embarrassing and please the people around us. We pretend to be okey. Some pretends to be rich just to be idolized for their money. Still, some pretend to be kind, happy, and some pretends to be healthy. Some pretends to be like a saint as if he/she’s so modest and reserved.
Thursday, May 15, 2008
PAPA's Birthday!
Here are the snapshotz! (thanks to Lalash)
weeehhh... papa at 52!
papa's gurl!
stolen shot... hehe
c papa pa-cute while mahmz is doing her retouch!
the guys i love th most!
me...behind the cam... hehehe
Tagged by Star!
I guess this is the 4th time that I was tagged by a fellow blogger and friend. Well, it would be too bad of me if I will just ignore it, ayt? (lolz)
So here it goes….
Rules:
1. Mention the person who tagged you and create a link back to them.
2. Copy-paste the traits for all the twelve months (see below).
3. Pick your month of birth.
4. Highlight the traits that apply to you.
5. Tag 12 people and let them know by visiting their blogs and leaving a comment for them.
6. Let the person who tagged you know when you’ve done it!
Before I'll post the months and traits, here's the person that I'm tagging.
1. Cinderella
2. Chris
3. Jam
4. KR
5. Joy
6. Chibi
7. Mary Lyka
8. Melai
9. Anne
10.Belle
11.Tin
12.Ruth
The Months and Traits
JANUARY: Stubborn and hard-hearted. Ambitious and serious. Loves to teach and be taught. Always looking at people’s flaws and weaknesses. Likes to criticize. Hardworking and productive. Smart, neat and organized. Sensitive and has deep thoughts. Knows how to make others happy. Quiet unless excited or tensed. Rather reserved. Highly attentive. Resistant to illnesses but prone to colds. Romantic but has difficulties expressing love. Loves children. Loyal. Has great social abilities yet easily jealous. Very stubborn and money cautious.
FEBRUARY: Abstract thoughts. Loves reality and abstract. Intelligent and clever. Changing personality. Attractive. Sexy. Temperamental. Quiet, shy and humble. Honest and loyal. Determined to reach goals. Loves freedom. Rebellious when restricted. Loves aggressiveness. Too sensitive and easily hurt. Gets angry really easily but does not show it. Dislikes unnecessary things. Loves making friends but rarely shows it. Daring and stubborn. Ambitious. Realizes dreams and hopes. Sharp. Loves entertainment and leisure. Romantic on the inside not outside. Superstitious and ludicrous. Spendthrift. Tries to learn to show emotions.
MARCH: Attractive personality. Affectionate. Shy and reserved. Secretive. Naturally honest, generous and sympathetic. Loves peace and serenity. Sensitive to others. Loves to serve others. Easily angered. Trustworthy. Appreciative and returns kindness. Observant and assesses others.Revengeful! Loves to dream and fantasize. Loves traveling. Loves attention. Hasty decisions in choosing partners. Loves home decors. Musically talented. Loves special things. Moody.
APRIL: Active and dynamic. Decisive and hasty but tends to regret. Attractive and affectionate to oneself. Strong mentality. Loves attention. Diplomatic. Consoling, friendly and solves people’s problems. Brave and fearless. Adventurous. Loving and caring. Suave and generous. Emotional. Aggressive. Hasty. Good memory. Moving. Motivates oneself and others. Sickness usually of the head and chest. Sexy in a way that only their lover can see.
MAY: Stubborn and hard-hearted. Strong-willed and highly motivated. Sharp thoughts. Easily angered. Attracts others and loves attention. Deep feelings. Beautiful physically and mentally. Firm Standpoint. Needs no motivation. Easily consoled. Systematic (left brain). Loves to dream. Strong clairvoyance. Understanding. Sickness usually in the ear and neck. Good imagination. Good physical. Weak breathing. Loves literature and the arts. Loves traveling. Dislike being at home. Restless. Not having many children. Hardworking. High spirited. Spendthrift.
JUNE: Thinks far with vision. Easily influenced by kindness. Polite and soft-spoken. Having ideas. Sensitive. Active mind. Hesitating, tends to delay. Choosy and always wants the best. Temperamental. Funny and humorous. Loves to joke. Good debating skills. Talkative. Daydreamer. Friendly. Knows how to make friends. Able to show character. Easily hurt. Prone to getting colds. Loves to dress up. Easily bored. Fussy. Seldom shows emotions. Takes time to recover when hurt. Brand conscious. Executive. Stubborn.
JULY: Fun to be with. Secretive. Difficult to fathom and to be understood. Quiet unless excited or tensed. Takes pride in oneself. Has reputation. Easily consoled. Honest. Concerned about people’s feelings. Tactful. Friendly. Approachable. Emotional temperamental and unpredictable. Moody and easily hurt. Witty and sparkly. Not revengeful. Forgiving but never forgets. Dislikes nonsensical and unnecessary things. Guides others physically and mentally. Sensitive and forms impressions carefully. Caring and loving. Treats others equally. Strong sense of sympathy. Wary and sharp. Judges people through observations. Hardworking. No difficulties in studying. Loves to be alone. Always broods about the past and the old friends. Likes to be quiet. Homely person. Waits for friends. Never looks for friends. Not aggressive unless provoked. Prone to having stomach and dieting problems. Loves to be loved. Easily hurt but takes long to recover.
AUGUST: Loves to joke. Attractive (lolz). Suave and caring. Brave and fearless. Firm and has leadership qualities. Knows how to console others. Takes high pride in oneself. Too generous and egoistic. Thirsty for praises. Extraordinary spirit. Easily angered. Angry when provoked. Easily jealous. Observant. Careful and cautious (not at all times). Thinks quickly. Independent thoughts. Loves to lead and to be led. Loves to dream. Talented in the arts, music and defense. Sensitive (sometimes) but (not) petty (haha). Poor resistance against illnesses. Learns to relax. Hasty and trusty. Romantic. Loving and caring. Loves to make friends.
SEPTEMBER: Suave and compromising. Careful, cautious and organized. Likes to point out people’s mistakes. Likes to criticize. Stubborn. Quiet but able to talk well. Calm and cool. Kind and sympathetic. Concerned and detailed. Loyal but not always honest. Does work well. Very confident. Sensitive. Good memory. Clever and knowledgeable. Loves to look for information. Must control oneself when criticizing. Able to motivate oneself. Understanding. Fun to be around. Secretive. Loves leisure and traveling. Hardly shows emotions. Tends to bottle up feelings. Very choosy, especially in relationships. Systematic.
OCTOBER: Loves to chat. Loves those who loves them. Loves to take things at the center. Inner and physical beauty. Lies but doesn’t pretend. Gets angry often. Treats friends importantly. Always making friends. Easily hurt but recovers easily. Daydreamer. Opinionated. Does not care of what others think. Emotional. Decisive. Strong clairvoyance. Loves to travel, the arts and literature. Touchy and easily jealous. Concerned. Loves outdoors. Just and fair. Spendthrift. Easily influenced. Easily loses confidence. Loves children.
NOVEMBER: Has a lot of ideas. Difficult to fathom. Thinks forward. Unique and brilliant. Extraordinary ideas. Sharp thinking. Fine and strong clairvoyance. Can become good doctors. Dynamic in personality. Secretive. Inquisitive. Knows how to dig secrets. Always thinking. Less talkative but amiable. Brave and generous. Patient. Stubborn and hard-hearted. If there is a will, there is a way. Determined. Never give up. Hardly becomes angry unless provoked. Loves to be alone. Thinks differently from others. Sharp-minded. Motivates oneself. Does not appreciate praises. High-spirited. Well-built and tough. Deep love and emotions. Romantic. Uncertain in relationships. Homely. Hardworking. High abilities. Trustworthy. Honest and keeps secrets. Not able to control emotions. Unpredictable.
DECEMBER: Loyal and generous. Sexy. Patriotic. Active in games and interactions. Impatient and hasty. Ambitious. Influential in organizations. Fun to be with. Loves to socialize. Loves praises. Loves attention. Loves to be loved. Honest and trustworthy. Not pretending. Short tempered. Changing personality. Not egotistic. Take high pride in oneself. Hates restrictions. Loves to joke. Good sense of humor. Logical.
Wednesday, May 14, 2008
SAD!
An easy way to financial management!
Saturday, May 10, 2008
MOTHER ---> an angel!
This post is suited even to very young readers. Parental guidance is no longer necessary!
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"Your angel will be waiting for you and will take care of you."
The child further inquired, "But tell me, here in heaven I don't have to do anything but sing and smile to be happy."
God said, "Your angel will sing for you and will also smile for you. Andyou will feel your angel's love and be very happy."
Again the child asked, "And how am I going to be able to understand when people talk to me if I don't know the language?"
God said, "Your angel will tell you the most beautiful and sweet words you will ever hear, and with much patience and care, your angel will teach you how to speak."
"And what am I going to do when I want to talk to you?"
God said, "Your angel will place your hands together and will teach you how to pray."
"Who will protect me?"
God said, "Your angel will defend you even if it means risking it's life."
"But I will always be sad because I will not see you anymore."
God said, "Your angel will always talk to you about Me and will teach you the way to come back to Me, even though I will always be next to you."
At that moment there was much peace in Heaven, but voices from Earth could be heard and the child hurriedly asked, "God, if I am to leave now, please tell me my angel's name."
"You will simply call her, 'Mom.'"




